Our Rules

(Written and reviewed frequently by Master.)

You are mine, owned completely by Me. You are to comply with these rules to the best of your ability and will do your best to serve and please Me at all times. You are encouraged to experiment with new things that you believe will enhance our lives.

You will always wear the collar at other times by My request. It is a symbol of My love for you, your love for Me, and marks your status as my submissive. I promise that I will look after you and care for you to the best of my abilities. I will never act in anger, and I will be honest and forthright with you as you are with Me.

Finances will be dealt with by our usual arrangements for the time being. If you wish extra money to purchase a gift for Me or for someone, you will ask Me.

Attitude

As you know I want you vivacious and happy. I want you to enjoy yourself in all you do. Kisses, hugs and other signs of affection are heartily encouraged. I expect you to control your willfulness and to channel your energy and intelligence into the creative enhancement of our lives. You will learn to control your temper, seeking to reason with yourself and present your opinions to me in the prescribed manner.

If you are unhappy, upset, or concerned by anything, I expect you to tell Me immediately. However, you may say, "Master, there is a problem, but I am not ready to talk about it." I will give you some time and ask you to discuss it when I feel you are ready.

Decisions

Where practicable, you will ask me to make any decisions that are not to do with the day-to-day routine of your home-life (for example, you will ask permission to book haircuts, go out to coffee, buy the boys treats, go for a walk, etc). Any decisions you take on your own will be brought to my attention. When asking permissions or questions, you will kneel (where practicable). If you wish to express an opinion or problem, you will ask permission to speak to me in the office or bedroom.

Personal Appearance

You will seek permission to dress or change so that I may have the opportunity to approve your clothing. You will wear briefs in winter and during your period unless directed otherwise. As for shoes, you will wear at least 4" HIGH HEELS at all times around the house in the evenings and wear shoes as you normally have done at other times unless directed to the contrary. You will wear stockings, either stay-up or with garters and corsets, crocthless pantyhose, body stockings or knee socks.

I expect all body and pubic hair to be removed or trimmed as appropriate. Your fingernails should be kept just long enough to scratch My back.

You are expected to keep yourself as healthy as possible. As will I. Your input on family health is both expected and invaluable.

You must ask permission to pleasure yourself and for release.

Communications

I expect the following series of verbal reports every day: a schedule of the expected day; any update to through-the-day progress if required; a review at the end of the day. Additionally, you will maintain your journal as you see fit to give me an insight into your thinking.

The Computer

I will check your mail regularly. You must obtain permission to log on yourself and may delete nothing. If you receive mail, I expect to be informed. You are required to brief Me as to the broad context of any conversations you have had while chatting on the net.

Public (non lifestyle) Behavior

You may address Me by my name or with some other endearment when we are around others who are not familiar or comfortable with our lifestyle.

When we sit down - at a restaurant, for example - you will sit with ankles crossed and wrists extended on the table and crossed until I give you direction otherwise. You may comment on what dishes you like, and I will then chose what you are to eat. When we are relaxing with friends, you will look to Me for direction as to where and how you are to sit. Such direction will be by words or actions.

The rules about attitude, communication, and personal appearance apply. If you are unsure about any situation, look to Me for guidance as to what behavior I require.

Private or Lifestyle Rules-

Forms of Address

I will refer to you by your name and by various terms of endearment. I may also refer to you by the name that you use online. Note: if I refer to you as my slave, it is a compliment denoting your position as my submissive.

With lifestyle couples I will expect you to call the man "Sir" unless given permission to address Him in another way. I am your Master, and you do not need to refer to another as Master.

Furniture (in my presence):

Upstairs you will kneel in silence when I come into a room. Downstairs you will stand when I enter and ask if you may get anything for Me, then you will seek the floor at all times unless I invite you to sit elsewhere. You may sit or kneel so you are comfortable. This should include resting your head on my legs and being close to Me. The kitchen is an exception - here you need not kneel unless asked by Me but should stand, legs slightly apart, hands clasped behind your back.

General Rules when we are alone

You are required to know and to immediately assume any of the positions listed herein or in any appendix to this document.

When I ask you to get Me something you will get the item and bring it to Me. In private, you will kneel in front of Me and with both hands outstretched holding the item (in the presence of others you will standing, offer the item to me with respect). After I have taken the item from your hands, you are to remain in position until I give you permission to do otherwise.

When I place an item in front of you, I expect you to kiss that item lightly. For example, I may place the crop in front of you to kiss before or after it has been used on you.

I may blindfold or gag you at any time. If you are blindfolded, I may choose to lead you around on a leash. At all times you must wait for Me to give you permission to climax - I will decide when I want you to release.

Our daily routine is written down and shall be adhered to as if it were part of these Rules.

Positions

A. Present: This will be one of the common positions you will spend a lot of time in. As you know, you will kneel, legs spread. You should have your back as straight as possible and your hands clasped behind your back.

B. Stand and present: In this position you stand straight, legs slightly apart with your hands clasped behind your back.

C. Prone: Lay on the floor: On your stomach, wrists behind your back and crossed, ankles crossed.

D. Face up: Lay on your back. Wrists crossed behind your back and legs spread wide.

E. Kneel low from the present position: You will kneel with your head to the floor, usually near my feet.

Note on C and D: I may say "prone on the bed" or "face up on the couch" indicating that you should assume the positions in those places. You are expected to maintain the position for so long as I wish, whether or not I leave the room, until I permit you to break.

Inspection (when required)

In this ritual the submissive assumes a set of positions that allow her Master to inspect her completely and intimately. The submissive is required to remain in a given position until her Master tells her to move to the next position. At the end of the ritual, the submissive kneels low, her head to the floor (and her Master s feet) and thanks him for inspecting her.

The submissive assumes a position of legs spread wide, wrists behind her head. Her Master then inspects her as closely and intimately as he wishes. Upon command, the submissive then bends down, legs still spread wide, and grabs her ankles. Her bottom is to face her Master. The third position requires that the submissive lay on her back, her legs spread wide, bent at the knees. Her wrists are crossed behind her head. She remains in this position until told to break it, at which time she kneels in front of her Master and thanks him.

Submission

This begins with the submissive fully dressed, wearing her collar with a flogger at her side. She kneels in front of her Master, about 6 feet away. There she begins by removing her shirt, folding it by her side, before re-clasping her hands behind her back, waiting for the command:"Continue". She then removes her bra and, folding it by her side, she again waits for the command to continue. This continues with the rest of her clothes. On command, she takes the flogger, and crawls to her Master, presenting it to him. He may then require her to kiss the flogger and receive a flogging. At the end of this flogging or when the Master signals the end of the ritual, she will kneel low and thank her Master.

Questions

At any time I may ask you any of the following questions. You must kneel on the floor and answer: What are you? What does that Mean? What rights do you have?

Bedtime

When given permission to go to bed, you may prepare and:

a) if at the same time as Me, fold back my side of the bed and when ready kneel awaiting permission to get into bed;

b) if before me, do as above, getting out of bed and kneeling when I enter the room (if you are already asleep it is up to Me to decide whether or not to wake you);

c) if after me, kneel as for (a), unless I am asleep, in which case kneel for a moment, then slip quietly into bed.

Re-affirmation

In this ritual the Master again demonstrates his absolute control and power over his submissive. He will begin the ritual by commanding the submissive to kneel low. Typically, this is followed by instructions to obtain one or more items and go to a specific location. The Master will then use his submissive as he sees fit. This can include spanking, waxing, penetration, and other activities that the Master desires. At the conclusion of this, the submissive will again kneel low and thank her Master.

She will always kneel low during this ritual. She may only rise off her knees if her Master gives her permission or requires her to assume another position. She may not ask permission to rise.